
Chuck leaving home to start another shift of work at Weyerhaeuser Paper Company in Yuma, Arizona (1992)
The summer of 1974, my husband was twenty-two years old and unemployed. One day he parked his Chevy truck in an industrialized area of Modesto, less than a mile from his home on the Tuolumne River where he grew up. He walked up and down the street, going factory to factory, looking for work. Weyerhaeuser Company offered him a job that summer, running a die-cut machine. He worked for three weeks straight before he got his first day off. This year Chuck reached a milestone in his life: it's the thirty-fifth summer that he has been making boxes for Weyerhaeuser.

Chuck and I were married in September 1976. His grandmother warned us not to move away from Modesto and family. But we did. Like the infamous "seven year itch," Chuck got the urge to relocate almost every seven years. If Weyerhaeuser was starting-up a new box plant, he wanted to be there. We hit every cardinal point on the compass. First we moved north (Portland, Oregon) then south (Yuma, Arizona) then west (Camarillo, California) and finally east (Phoenix, Arizona).
And these were just the major moves. There were always the shorter, temporary moves while waiting for houses to be built, escrows to close, or issues to be resolved. Twice we moved with newborn babies. Three times we turned our homes into rental properties when we transferred out of state. Between four kids, we adjusted to six different elementary schools, three junior high schools, and four high schools.



I remember Mike Sanzone, Chuck's boss in Portland, telling him that "a box plant is a box plant, whether it's in Portland, Oregon, or McAllen, Texas." He said that it's the wife and kids that have to make the biggest sacrifice when moving to a new location with the company.
And he was right. Chuck was always good to go from Day One. Moving only seemed to energize him. But as our children grew, it became increasingly more painful for them (and for me) to be wrenched away from friends and communities that had become so important in our lives. When we moved to

A loyal and tireless worker, Chuck has hardly missed any time on the job in over three decades. Taking into account his brutal work schedule, this is quite a feat. During his career with Weyco, he has worked day shift, swing shift, graveyard shift, split shift, week-ends and holidays. And did I mention overtime? We discovered many inventive ways over the years to ensure that somehow, despite environmental conditions and noisy children, Dad got some sleep somewhere in the house.

In May 1999, Chuck wrote candidly about his job in a letter to Cristin:
I’m writing this letter at 1:00 a.m. This is my night off. This is really a big deal because I only get two nights off a month so I have to make sure I take advantage of all this free time. I feel like all I do is work. Oh well it could be worse. I could be unemployed or working in a coal mine instead of a box plant. I used to try and glorify my job when people asked what I do for a living. Now I just tell them I make boxes and leave it at that. Most people don’t ask me a second question after hearing what I do. I’m sure they’re thinking, wow, making boxes, that’s right up there with truck driver, garbage collector, poor guy. Little do they know that I make about as much as some Bank Presidents. Of course I have to work twice as much and in the middle of the night.

Real Estate was so pricey in southern California that we opted to purchase this upstairs condominium in Camarillo. It was two bedroom / two bath and the garage was unattached. We had to park our extra car down the hill and across the street at the golf course. (2002)

With such a demanding work load, I learned early in our marriage not to have any expectations that my husband would be available for social events or family activities. I was the designated parent at teacher conferences, and the awkward married-but-solo person at the church socials. We settled into our respective roles automatically. My job was to manage the household, help children succeed in school, and keep us all active in our various church programs. Chuck’s job was to make boxes for Weyerhaeuser.

Caitlin's preschool teacher helped her complete this Father's Day card in 1992.

John Fogerty’s song, Proud Mary, was the inspiration for the title of this post. The lyrics include this verse: “And I never lost one minute of sleepin’, worryin’ bout the way things might have been.” To be honest, I have lost sleep--- at times lots of sleep--- thinking about the way things might have been. What if we had listened to Grams, stayed in

Yet it is what it is. I don’t want to diminish Chuck’s accomplishment. He’s always provided for his family. If nothing else, staying loyal to the same employer your whole career is a testament of sheer endurance. Monday morning at 5 a.m. when my husband starts making boxes, “the man” will have a different name. International Paper Company acquired Weyerhaeuser’s entire container-board unit earlier this year. Chuck hit the milestone anniversary date with literally days to spare before the change of ownership. He’s now eligible to receive the maximum retirement benefits offered by the company. Congratulations, Honey. You endured. You managed to survive the last thirty-five years. Somehow, we both did.

copyright 2008 by Kathleen Stewart Goodrich
10 comments:
That fathers day card from Caitlin is sooo funny! I was laughing so hard!!!
Dad is such a hard worker and he has been such an example of endurance.
My favorite post! Dad is such a wonderful Man. Your a lucky lady to be married to such a hard worker!
Wow! Should we say that "behind 5 well-spoken and sparkling women is the quiet Iron Man"? I would be interested to hear his thoughts on his working life and how he has been able to keep at it for so long. (If they have a Men's Conference, maybe he should speak!) It seems to be such a challenge for a lot of people to 1) stay at a job for a long time, 2) take orders from a boss and/or 3) do work that isn't personally interesting to them.
I really enjoy the way you are telling these stories of your family. You must be quite organized to have the letters and pictures available to upload.
What a neat post! All these thoughts came to mind as I read that! My husband has moved us quite a bit, but hasn't always been for the same job...at least Chucks was! It is typically the wife and kids that make the most sacrafices, but THANK GOODNESS for their hard work, right!! I still remember the time we were moving (when I was in high school), and Chuck gave us a TON of free boxes, so helpful and sweet! He is an awesome guy, I've always loved him and your whole family! Way to hang in there (all of you)! And one last comment...THANK GOODNESS you DID move to Camarillo, I'm sure glad for that:)!
First of all - that picture of Grandma Tibbs is HILARIOUS. As a kid I never realized how hard Dad worked for us. Now, as an adult, I compare his hours to Erik's and I think, "How did he do that for so long... and continue to do that?"
We ask ourselves a lot of the same questions, "What if Erik took a certain job? What if we didn't leave Camarillo? etc. etc." It's hard to know how these choices will affect the rest of your life.
I really liked this post.
Gosh honey, this is one of the nicest things anyone has ever written about me. Thank you for making me look like a hard worker and good provider. I couldn't of done it without you. I love you.
Chuck
Chuck looks like Napoleon Dynamite in that picture with the broken leg. Sounds like a good time to start that custom golf club line. Those Ball busters will be a big hit among the female divorced golfer crowd. Congrats on the milestone.
Wow, I am looking up my dad's address on Google and look what I find. Congratulations for the retirement from the box business. I bought, or my dad did my second car, and favorite from Chuck. My name is Matt Sanzone. I am now the planner/scheduler for Moses Lake Washington under the new IP. I hope all is well.
I can say with all honesty that Chuck was one of the smartest and hardest working employees that I ever worked at in any box plant. Being an accountant for many companies and locations you quickly get to know the "real" people who will be there everyday. Chuck ranks as on of the best.
Jim Campbell - Controller Yuma 88-92
I stumbled upon your blog while writing a paper for school. What a treat to see what you had put together regarding Chuck! I'm glad for the time I knew him while we both worked in Portland. Those were truly good years and with the way the boxplant in Portland was joined by Willamette and now purchased by IP, things there just aren't the same anymore. I hope you and your family are doing well. Tell Chuck hello for me.
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